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misunderstanding. would you feel "loved" Love less, feelings will be better There was a woman who had a problem in her marriage and went to ask a wise man for advice. She complained about her husband, and her words revealed a lot of helplessness. The wise man sat there and listened to her. Finally, the wise man said: "If you can become a better wife, the problems in your marriage will improve immediately." "Then, what should I do" "Stop trying to make him a better husband."
The word "love" can be broken down into "heart" and "feeling". Simply put, it means "accepting with your heart." Have you ever noticed people who are happily married Their partners are not perfect, and they are comfortable with each Nepal Phone Number List other because they are willing to accept their partner's imperfections. "If you love less, the relationship will be better." You heard it right, expectations are what we put on others; disappointment is what we bring on ourselves. Let go of expectations and from that moment on, the problem will improve. Let go of expectations and be kind to each other.
A relationship begins with expectations and may end with expectations. Our initial love is pure, and what is shown is pure happiness; then, when we have expectations, what is shown is expectation; when expectations fail, and we are frustrated and disappointed, what is shown is dissatisfaction, anger, resentment, and frustration... …. This means that our love is not love, but expectation. Let go of expectations and your mind will calm down. You will find that you are the biggest victim of expectations. (This article is excerpted from Gaobao's book " The Simpler the Heart, the More Free " ) How simple